In celebrating Christmas, my favorite family tradition
involved the mystery of the orange in our stockings. While we waited for my
Grandpa to drive over to our house to be with us while we opened presents, we
would empty our stockings, filled with little toys and candies… and an orange.
The memories are so strong that every time I hold an orange in my hands and
smell the citrus fragrance of the rind, I think of Christmas morning, when I
would peel it open and gobble the fruit down. There was an orange waiting for
us every year.
My mom remembers having one some holidays, but not always.
It was my dad who had an orange in his stocking every year. He said it sat on
top of his stocking, hiding what was beneath it. And our oranges served the same
purpose, to better hide the surprise of what prying eyes peeking around the top
of the stairs would soon find inside.
In researching the tradition of the Christmas orange, the
only thing that was clear was that its direct origins are still a bit of a
mystery. Laura Ingalls Wilder references getting an orange in her stocking as a
child in 1880, noting that it was a special treat. According to the Food and Nutrition Encyclopedia by Audrey Ensminger, with the advent
of the new rail system, and the abundance of ripe oranges out of Florida and
California, there was a fair supply of them available to the public in the
1880s.
What a special gift at a time of year when there isn’t a
lot of other fresh fruit available. Lucky for us, winter is the peak of harvest
season for citrus. In England, I found that putting oranges in the toes of
stockings pre-dates World War II, but became a common tradition during the war.
It must have been an especially delicious treat during rationing.
I found correspondences of the orange to the mythology of
Bishop Nicholas, better known as Saint Nicholas, but nothing I could cite as factual.
Nicholas was a good, wealthy man born in Turkey in the fourth century who spent
his life helping the poor. Folklore says that he secreted money into three
stockings of three daughters of a man who could not afford a good dowry and
feared he would not find them good husbands. In the story, the gold melted
inside the stockings where they hung over the fireplace and the young women
pulled out three golden balls in the morning. It’s true that statues of
Nicholas often show him holding three golden globes, but any claimed similarities
to the Christmas orange as a symbol of Saint Nicholas’ generosity have been recently
made.
I hold one in my hand and I smell Christmas kindness. I
think any Santa or Saint would approve.
Making
Decorative Pomanders
Pomander balls go back to the 15th
century, used as natural air fresheners. To make them, you need oranges, a lot of whole cloves, and
something you can use to pierce the skin like a toothpick, pin, nail, or wooden
skewer. You can also use citrus fruits like clementines, lemons, limes,
tangerines, or kumquats (kumquats make adorable tree-sized pomanders).
Some people like to make designs with their cloves and
others cover it with them like a second skin. For best results, I recommend
covering as much of the orange with cloves as you can as the clove oil acts as
a preservative. Use your pointy thing of choice to poke in holes before
inserting cloves (or your fingers will soon start to hurt). If you need a
guideline for your rows, you can wrap a rubber band or masking tape around the
center to get you started. Leave room in your pattern to tie ribbons around the
orange for hanging and display. I use cotton cording that I can weave around
the cloves. Then hang the pomander in a closet for a couple of days to allow
drying time, as they can get moldy (one woman on-line said she puts hers in her
fridge, but I’ve always shut them away in a closet). Scent-wise, these will
last a few weeks.
If you want them to last through the season, you can coat
your pomander with powdered orrisroot to help preserve it. For pomanders that
both last longer and spice up your home, you can coat your pomander in a
mixture of ground cinnamon, ground cloves, ground ginger, ground nutmeg, and
powdered orrisroot; three tablespoons each.
If you hang stockings, will an orange wait within it for
you? Maybe another festive fruit? Or some tradition unique and special to your
family?
Blessings to You and Yours
As part of my spiritual practice I celebrate Winter
Solstice, the longest night of the year, which falls on December 21. I grew up
Catholic, celebrating Christmas with my family on December 25. As an adult, I
observe both holidays. I still celebrate Christmas, just a different kind. I
love Christmas. I am full to the brim of Christmas Spirit.
Happiness. Peace. Kindness. Compassion. I celebrate
Christmas as the holiday of family and humanity. I light candles to honor and
revere the goodness inside each and every one of us. I wish for peace on earth,
that the good will shine through, that light will win out.
This is the year for compassion.
When someone wishes you a Merry Christmas, say “You, too.”
If someone wishes you a Happy Holiday, say “You, too.” If someone wishes you a
Happy Kwanzaa, say “You, too.” If someone wishes you a Merry Solstice or a
Happy Yule, say “You, too.” It doesn’t matter whether or not it’s something you
celebrate.
People are wishing you good tidings in the spirit of
brotherhood and joy as dictated by their faith. Return the favor. Don’t be a
Scrooge. Who can’t use more joy and light?
[Adapted from a post
originally published December 11, 2013.]
"Who can’t use more joy and light?" Truest words of the season, nay, this year.More joy and light to you and yours and thank you again for sharing with us.
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